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This Blog DOES NOT belong to any political or any particular sect or denomination.This blog is not here to insult other Religion. The main aim of this BLOG is to spread the true message of Islam to all the Human Beings,some times a message that comes to my inbox as forward mails or a post made by the blog author.Sharing Knowledge is the prime aim behind this.

Why Pork is prohibited in Islam?

Two teachers of Bible approached me with a promise of free Bible classes a few months back.As a student of  Bible studies,I came to notice some verses which will be of great interest  for a Muslim.It is very interesting to note that even Bible declares the flesh of Swine [pig] as forbidden to the true believeres.

In the book of Leviticus

"And the swine, though he divide the hoof, and be cloven footed, yet he cheweth not the cud; he is unclean to you".

"Of their flesh shall ye not eat, and their carcass shall ye not touch, they are unclean to you." [Leviticus 11:7-8]

Pork is also prohibited in the Bible in the book of Deuteronomy

"And the swine, because it divideth the hoof, yet cheweth not the cud, it is unclean unto you. Ye shall not eat of their flesh, nor touch their dead carcass."

[Deuteronomy 14:8]

A similar prohibition is repeated in the Bible in the book of Isaiah chapter 65 verse 2-5.

But in this part of the world and among the Christians all over the world,Pork is considered as one of favourite dishes.That wonders me and I posted my doubt about this to many of my Christian friends and teachers.I didn't get a reply yet,but waiting for that.

The Holly Quran strictly prohibits the flesh of Pig to the believers.The Qur’an prohibits the consumption of pork in no less than 4 different places. It is prohibited in 2:173, 5:3, 6:145 and 16:115.

"Forbidden to you (for food) are: dead meat, blood, the flesh of swine, and that on which hath been invoked the name of other than Allah."

[Al-Qur’an 5:3]

So in that case we have to say Muslims are more Christians than Christians themselves,in following the true teachings of Jesus {Peace be upon him].

Then why Pork is forbidden?Then that is my next haunting question.Medical Science telling that "eating of pork can cause no less than seventy different types of diseases. A person can have various helminthes like roundworm, pinworm, hookworm, etc. One of the most dangerous is Taenia Solium, which is in lay man’s terminology called tapeworm. It harbours in the intestine and is very long. Its ova i.e. eggs, enter the blood stream and can reach almost all the organs of the body. If it enters the brain it can cause memory loss. If it enters the heart it can cause heart attack, if it enters the eye it can cause blindness, if it enters the liver it can cause liver damage. It can damage almost all the organs of the body.


Another dangerous helminthes is Trichura Tichurasis. A common misconception about pork is that if it is cooked well, these ova die. In a research project undertaken in America, it was found that out of twenty-four people suffering from Trichura Tichurasis, twenty two had cooked the pork very well. This indicates that the ova present in the pork do not die under normal cooking temperature."

Another point to be noted is "Pork has fat building material.Pork has very little muscle building material and contains excess of fat. This fat gets deposited in the vessels and can cause hypertension and heart attack. It is not surprising that over 50% of Americans suffer from hypertension."

"The pig is one of the filthiest animals on earth. It lives and thrives on muck, faeces and dirt. It is the best scavenger that I know that God has produced. In the villages they don’t have modern toilets and the villagers excrete in the open air. Very often excreta is cleared by pigs.

Some may argue that in advanced countries like Australia, pigs are bred in very clean and hygienic conditions. Even in these hygienic conditions the pigs are kept together in sties. No matter how hard you try to keep them clean they are filthy by nature. They eat and enjoy their own as well as their neighbour’s excreta.

"The pig is the most shameless animal on the face of the earth. It is the only animal that invites its friends to have sex with its mate. In western countries, most people consume pork. Many times after dance parties, they have swapping of wives; i.e. many say "you sleep with my wife and I will sleep with your wife." If you eat pigs then you behave like pigs. We Indians look upon western world to be very advanced and sophisticated. Whatever they do, we follow after a few years. According to an article in Island magazine, this practice of swapping wives has become common in the affluent circles of many major cities in India."

So all these above quotations shows how eating the flesh of Pig  can bring serious health problems and moral problems.Even the recent swine flue points to the same thing.And what is actually swine flu?The answer to that i s" Swine influenza is a disease that pigs get. The virus currently spreading among people is now generally referred to as swine flu, although the origin of the disease is still under investigation. There is no evidence of this strain of the disease circulating in pigs in the UK.


There are regular outbreaks of swine flu in pigs worldwide. It does not normally infect humans, although this does sometimes happen, usually in people who have had close contact with pigs.

Swine flu viruses are usually of the H1N1 sub-type. The swine flu that has spread to humans is a version of this virus."All these shows that there is nothing good in this animal and it is created for balancing nature as a scavenger,to clean and not to be consumed for food.For that purpose our LORD has created many other animals and like the "forbidden fruit" He forbids human beings from the animal,but all these known,still people repeat the same without thinking "why and for whom and by whom it is declared".If this where thought seriously then defintely every one might have got an answer for that.

For more details please visit the Bible materials http://www.biblestudy.org/question/does-bible-allow-us-to-eat-anything-we-want.html

After reading and learning all these,I am once again thankfull to Allah who brought me to the path of Truth.May you all also be enlightened by the Truth,Insha Allah.

Question and Answer by Holly Prophet Mohammed [SAW]












YOUR GUIDE TO MARITAL HAPPINESS [in the light of Islam]

Marriage makes legitimate way for fostering a happy family, which is, in turn, the building block of a sound society and the factory where productive and righteous individuals are formed.

1) Remember to Renew your love to your mate:

Don’t think that your love to your spouse is immortal or endless for no love can be of such nature unless you learn how to renew the seed of your love to grow and flourish. Love creates a happy marriage and is the origin to all the kind and good manners and treatment.

2) Always bear in Mind the natural differences between you and your spouse:

No matter how deep is your relation and mutual understanding, remember that there are natural differences between both of you as a man and a woman. Learn these points of differences – learn that no matter you are attached to each other, you will never get identical or similar in nature. Each one should enjoy his/her unique personality and way of thinking different from the other and learn how to deal with these differences without confusion or conflict.

3) Know the Points that arouse the Anger of your spouse and Avoid them:

Avoid doing an action infront of your spouse that normally and usually arouses her/his anger.

4) Learn and Understand the Nature of your Spouse:

Remember always and understand that women always deal with things from an emotional perspective since her emotional side is always the domineering side contrary to men. Her actions might occur as result to such emotional nature which might be faulty and arousing to anger. She might lose her temper easily and if you meet such elapses with an equal anger and shouting out of preserving your manhood ego and dignity will ignite the furor and conflicts. Therefore a man should learn that the right way to deal with such situations and to resort to the real manhood reserving behavior is not through shouting but through warm understanding to her special nature, consideration and patience. The real manhood is to learn how to lead safely your marital boat to the shore.

5) If you make your spouse happy, that will return back to you:

Do you remember the rule that says that in order to take you should learn first how to give? : One of the main rules of wisdom in life. If you know how to make your wife happy, she will in return give that happiness back to you. Therefore, the real winner in that equation is you. When you do the things that make her happy, according to her sensitive emotional nature, she will feel passion, tenderness and appreciation towards you. The emotional nature of a woman dictates her to feel softness and tenderness towards those who give her love and affection. When she feels loved, she will devote her efforts to pay this love and kindness back in sacrifice for her beloved.

• Tips to make your wife happy:

• Consult her with your matters

• Treat her softly and delicately

• When you give order, give it in tender manner not in arrogance and authoritative.

• Provide her with her financial needs and household requirements

• Talk to her in lively joking manners sometimes

• Assign special time to spend with her and don’t let your work and business consume all your time.

• Tell her directly that you love her and show her this love and feelings of jealousy

• Buy her gifts

• Consider her physiological and mental times of disturbances and share with her in solving her problems

• Forgive her mistakes and pay attention not to overload her with your demands

6) Give Special Care to your Cleanliness:

Cleanliness is a very important point that increases the happiness between the married couple. Unclean husband turns off his wife and rebels her away from him. Strange enough to know that in some cases matters related to cleanliness were the reasons that brought some marriages to divorce. They could be issues like the cleanliness of the spouse’s mouth, body, shaving, insisting on smoking, or leaving the bathroom dirty or unflushing the WC …and other cases of the like which show the recklessness of the husband to the point of cleanliness.

Ibn Al Jawzy says: “I’ve realized a lot of people who are reckless to their physical cleanliness. Some don’t clean their teeth after food, some would not wash their hands thoroughly after eating, especially from some sticking scents or grease, some would not use the eye and lashes oils, some would not shave underneath their arms,…etc. such recklessness emerges from a shortage in their adherence to the right rules of life and religion.

As to religion: Islam orders men to preserve their body’s cleanliness, taking bath before attending the Friday prayer so as not to harm others. It also prohibits one from entering the mosque if he ate garlic which spreads from his mouth an atmosphere of rebelling scents, to trim the nails, use the Miswaq (stick special for cleaning the teeth) consistently, shave the pubic parts and all the other issues and manners related to the personal cleanliness.

Whereas the unclean man rebels women away.

Ibn Abbas (May Allah be pleased with them) said: “I like to get beautiful for my wife as I like her to get beautiful for me”.

The Messenger of Allah (Peace and blessings be upon him) was the most clean and beautiful scented. The bad scent was among the worst things he hates.

Among the words of wisdom: cleaned clothes decreases one’s miseries and beautiful scents increases one’s wisdom. It adds to the wife’s happiness – and since women are the complementary to men – so he hates the same things she hates of him, nevertheless he might bear these bad points he hates while she might not bear them in similar patience”. (Sayd Al Khater)

13) Don’t Get Angry Quickly:

One could hardly prevent himself completely from getting angry, yet the wise person chooses and tries not to be aroused quickly to anger, not to shout or yell at any occasion, hence prevent anger from being one of his domineering personality traits. People who get angry very quickly are ones of the most miserable, because when one gets angry so quickly, one will get beyond the limits of mercy, fairness and justice and will change to be an aggressive and oppressive person to others.

The Prophet of Allah (PBUH) says: “the strong (person) is not the one who knocks others down but is (rather) the one who tams himself (at the time of) anger” (agreed upon).

Many of the words of divorce are uttered on the times of anger whereas when the man gets calmer, often regrets what he did. It’s often too late if the divorce is of a final type, where regret will never help, when he wakes up of his anger to find that he lost his beloved wife. In Islam if the divorce happened for the third time, the married couple can never retain their marriage again unless after the wife gets married to another man (real intended type of marriage, not a false imitated one on papers) which the nature of man would never accept.

14) Preserve her Conjugal Rights (Right Preserved in the Religion of Islam Only):

To sense the marital happiness, you should learn quite well the rewards which God destined for you if you treated your wife perfectly, kindly and compassionately.

The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) mentioned that even the couple’s intercourse is rewarded from God. As reported by Abu Zarr (May Allah be pleased with him) the Messenger of Allah said: “and in the ) fulfillment of physical desire) ÈÖÚ of you a charity”, the companions said: O Messenger of Allah! Will we fulfill our physical desires and also take a (divine) reward?!, he said: “do you see if he fulfills it in a prohibited way, will he bear a sin?, similarly if he fulfills it in a lawful (halal) way he will gain a reward” (narrated by Muslim).

(Not Found in other Religions)

Al Imam Al Nawawi said: “this is evidence that committing a normal lawful act turns to good deed through one’s intention while doing it. The intercourse between a married couple is turned to an act of worship if the intention of the husband is to: provide his wife her rights, treat her kindly as per Allah’s Commands, seek the birth of a good child, to satisfy her so as to make him and her stay away from any prohibited unchaste act and to maintain their virtuousness –to close all the doors to look at bad unlawful scenes or think and concentrate on unlawful thoughts or any other kinds of unlawful deeds”.

The Prophet of Allah (PBUH) said to Saad Ibn Abi Waqqas (May Allah be pleased with him): “….and there’s not a single expenditure that you give (in intention of seeking) the sake of Allah unless you are rewarded by Allah for it, even the morsel of food that you put in the mouth of your wife” (agreed upon).

17) Blame Yourself First:

One of the beautiful words of wisdom says: “when I commit a sin, I see it in the manners of my animal (vehicle/ means of transportation) and my wife”.

Another says: “one prohibited scene that I looked at made me forget the words of Qura’an after 40 years (of memorizing it)”!

Those wise men were so sensitive to the slight changes that happen to their lives, any tightness in their provisions and uneasiness in their life or needs. If any of these happen, their response is to seek to throw the fault and the blame on themselves first, to see what they did wrong, question themselves and weigh their deeds by a precise scrutinizing and fair eye. Then they would conclude that any grief or difficulty that befell them was a result to their sins or bad deeds, or disobedience to God.

Similarly, if they sense a negative change to the manners of their wives, they would swiftly return to their actions and fix what might went wrong in their behavior with God. They would swiftly return to God, plead Him to fix the manners of their wives and children. Indeed, those men have known how to tread the doors of happiness.

18) Share with your wife her hobbies:

If your wife has a certain hobby like roses or guarding, reading or painting or hand making some pots or small parts of furniture, it’s recommended that you share these interests with her even for the least time. This adds to her happiness a lot and strengthens her trust in you as well as to empowering her self esteem.

21) Finally: Maintain and Preserve Good Relation with God:

Continuous good relation and communication with God is a sufficient way to bring you happiness whereas cutting this relation is also sufficient source for your misery.

God says: “Who have believed and whose hearts have rest in the remembrance of Allah. Verily in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest!” (Ar’Raa’d, V 28).

God also says: “But he who turneth away from remembrance of Me, his will be a narrow life, and I shall bring him blind to the assembly on the Day of Resurrection.” (Ta Ha – V 123).

* How to Maintain a Consistent Good Relation with God:

a- Pray your five obligatory prayers in Conjugation (Jamaa’ah)

b- Maintain the suberogatory prayers/ acts

c- Maintain (Dhekr) Remembrance and mentioning God

d- Supplicate to God excessively and sincerely

e- Always ask God Forgiveness

f- Read a quite good portion of Qura’an daily

g- Always send and Ask the Peace and Blessings of Allah to His Messenger (PBUH)

h- Adhere carefully to the lawful and stay away from the prohibited

i- Accompany those who remind you with God

j- Attend the religious lessons and gatherings of knowledge and mentioning God

k- Purify your house from any bad prohibited matters/ actions.



Source: Anonymous

Why do I feel bored most of the time?

Boredom reflects an internal void. It reflects a lack of direction in life. In every heart, there is a place which only the Creator can fill. When you know that this life is not in vain, when you believe that this world has a Mighty yet Loving Creator, when you believe that you were created to worship this Creator, when you start knowing Him and His Messengers (peace be upon them all), when you start acting upon their guidance and revelation, when you perceive that everything that occurs is decreed and for your best, only then will you perceive the fact that time is not enough for all the obligations you have to fulfill before the end of your life…

http://www.balancedleader.net/QandA/bored.html

Time Management From an Islamic Perspective

"Close has come to mankind his accounting. Will he still be heedless?"

The above Qur'anic verse is the beginning of Surah Ambiya, chapter 21, followed by narrations of the people who were before us, people who were destroyed on the account of their wrong doings.

Life has only one chance.

If you fail in your exams, there is always a next year. If you lose your spouse, there can be a second marriage, but if you die, there is no second chance. This life is only one opportunity.

Those who were before us had lives longer than us. The Qur'an talks about Nuh (as), that he worked among his people for 950 years; whereas the average life of this Ummah is around 60 years.

We are the last to come but the first to enter Paradise .

With this short life, we still have the opportunity of making the best. It all depends on how you do, what you leave behind, not whatever you leave behind.

The difference between doing and wanting to do.

There are many things in life that we want to do desperately, but we are unable to do them due to various reasons. But, there are many things in our life which we can do, we are supposed to do, yet we do not do them. The list would be a long one. You can include memorizing of Qur'anic verses, visiting a dying relative or repaying you debt. You have chains of excuses because you don't want to do these things.

Let us see how much we live actually.

If you have to live for 60 years, subtract 15 years of your boyhood where no one questions you. From the remaining 45 years, if you sleep for 8 hours a day, you have deleted 15 years in sleeping. From the remaining 30 years, if you spend 2 hours on the television, you have 2.5 years watching what other people do and nobody pays you for that. From the remaining 27 and half years of your life, you have to earn and yet find out ways for immeasurable reward from Allah.

How and where is our time wasted?

Time is wasted in minutes. E.g. waiting for a friend, at a bus-stop, chatting on useless topics.

Assemble these pieces of minutes everyday and count how many hours you waste every year.

"Let every man know what he has sent forth." (59:18)

1) Make a list of your time wasters even if they are a few minutes long.

2) Make a list of the things which remain unattended by you and have the potential to become a problem if you don't give them immediate attention.

Our most productive actions.

a) Perform Isha and Fajr salaah in congregation and receive a reward of praying the whole night.

b) Do ibaadah in the nights in the last odd nights in Ramadan and earn a reward of worshipping for 1000 months. If you do it for 10 years, it will be equivalent to 833 years.

c) Keep aside one hour everyday for self- development. Suppose you choose to memorize one dua everyday for one hour, by the end of the year, you can memorize 365 duas of the Sunnah of the Prophet (pbuh). If you want to learn Arabic for one hour everyday, you have 320 hours every year if you are 80% regular in your learning. Now, without wasting time, make a list of the things you would like to learn in the next three months, 6 months, 1 year and 2 years. These are called "short term goals" and "long term goals" in terms of the corporate world.

What are your most productive Islamic activities?

This is for a continuous reward (Sawaab-e-Jaariya).

Choose from the below activities or add your own skills and talents:

a) Teach someone any aspect of Islam, be it a dua, correcting hid wudhu or his recitation of the Qur'an and lo! He keeps on doing it properly and your account keeps on increasing.

b) Talk to a non- Muslim about Islam.

c) Be a volunteer for any social cause in helping people.

d) Intercede for a good cause and have a share in it. (Surah Nisaa:85) Spot an orphan/ widow and find out a sponsor if you cannot afford it yourself.

e) By now, you must be having a lot of ideas, erupting in your own mind. Note them down just now and remember us in your supplications.

Do this to save time.

a) Always carry a good book to read.

b) If you discuss, take something worthy.

c) Help your spouse in his/ her work.

d) Visit a hospital and meet the poor and sick.

e) Visit your relatives whom you have not met for a long time.

f) Take your family to orphanages.

A list of probable time wasters.

Check out which is applicable to you:

• Sleeping more than average.

• Gossiping with friends on useless topics.

• Watching TV serials.

• Reading useless books.

• Having to wait for a long time at the bus stop.

• Have a list of pending work.

• Chatting on the internet on worthless topics.

• Being addicted to computer games.

• Free lectures due to absence of teacher in school.

"Remember, Allah has not created for idle sport the heavens and the earth and all that is between them."

How to get the best out of this life.

How many Lailatul Qadr have you missed out? The Qur?an declares:

? What do you know what is Lailatul Qadr? Lailatul Qadr is better than 1000 months.?

This Qur?anic verse gives us an idea or a short- cut in earning immeasurable sawab.That is, if you worship or do ibadah in the last 5 odd nights in the month of Ramadan, by the Grace of Allah, one of them would be Lailatul Qadr. In 10 years, it is 50 days, which is lesser than 2 months and if you get 10 Lailatul Qadr in your life. You get a reward of 10,000 months which is equal to 833 years. Now calculate how many Lailatul Qadr you have missed out enjoying the night playing carom, chatting and doing useless things. Henceforth , don?t miss out any Lailatul Qadr in your life inshAllah

http://www.balancedleader.net/QandA/qanda.html

Blogging: an Islamic perspective

Sikander Ziad Hashmi, sunniforum.com

Blogging is becoming increasingly popular. Thousands of new blogs pop up daily. Many Muslims have joined in on the blogging phenomenon.

Obviously, blogging is a fairly new online activity. The Merriam-Webster dictionary still does not recognize the word "blog". The few dictionaries that do so define it in various ways:

Weblog (noun): a personal Web site that provides updated headlines and news articles of other sites that are of interest to the user, also may include journal entries, commentaries and recommendations compiled by the user; also written web log, Weblog; also called blog (Webster's New Millennium™ Dictionary of English)

Blog (n): a shared on-line journal where people can post diary entries about their personal experiences and hobbies (WordNet ® 2.0)

Personal journals and diaries are nothing new. People have been keeping diaries for hundreds of years. What is new though is the added interactivity and the wide reach of these new online journals (blogs).

At the outset, it seems like blogging is a harmless activity for Muslims. After all, it's simply a journal about one's personal experiences, hobbies, and other ramblings, compiled publicly for others to read and often comment on. But after scratching the surface, we realize that it's not as simple as it seems.

Many Muslims have begun to wonder about the religious ruling regarding blogs. Armed with personal experience from being an avid blogger in the past, this humble servant will try to wrestle with that question in this article.

Types of Blogs

Generally, blogs can be classified into one of the following three categories:

1. Personal journal: The author writes about whatever comes to mind. That can include feelings, events and happenings in their life, what they did on a particular day, etc.

2. Topic-specific journal: The author picks one area of interest (such as news, Islam, a certain sport, area of study, etc.) and posts his/her experiences, thoughts, and other relevant information regarding the specified topic.

3. Personal/topic-specific journal: The author combines both 1) and 2) in his/her blog.

The first category merits some discussion.

For starters, all bloggers know that since their blogs are public, their entries are accessible by anyone and everyone. As such, every blogger (but specifically a Muslim one) should be extremely cautious about what he/she is divulging in the blog entries. Many times, the contents of a single entry don't seem to be of much concern, but when read collectively with past entries, they can provide an entire profile on the personality, character, and even physical traits of a person.

This presents some problems from an Islamic point of view. Islam, with its emphasis on modesty and its cautious approach to gender interaction, strongly discourages members of the opposite sex from openly divulging their personality, character, and physical traits (among other things) to each other.

Originally, when the concept of distant communication in real-time was non-existant, the prohibitions that were laid down were for physical, face-to-face contact. However, the advent of telephones, the Internet, SMS, digital cameras, and e-mail, has made it possible to have unhindered communication and interaction without any physical contact whatsoever. As a result, it has become increasingly difficult to differentiate between the two forms of communication (in terms of actual presence vs. distant) from a religious ruling point of view. Therefore, the entire concept of modesty, "lowering the gaze", and "covering ones self properly" must be extended to all forms of contact. Thus, they must be applied in a holistic sense, to all our actions, and not only to physical interaction.

In essence, blogging about one's personal life is similar to writing a journal entry and then posting it outside one's house or at a street corner for all to read. There isn't anything really wrong with doing that (if one wishes to be so public about one's private life), as long as one doesn't divulge any information that doesn't lead members of the opposite gender to envision and imagine the author, and doesn't let their hearts and minds become impressed and eventually lean towards the author.

Now, that may seem simple, but the fact is that nobody can really ascertain as to what may cause the above in the minds of the opposite gender. It may seem tempting to write-off this whole notion by saying that what goes through the minds of the readers is not the responsibility of the author. While that may hold true for truly objective pieces of work and in matters of true need, the onlookers would not be completely to blame for not "lowering their gaze" if a muscular, handsome man wearing boxers and a t-shirt were to unnecessarily walk through a group of women. The bulk of the blame would fall squarely on the shoulders of the one committing the unnecessary action, though the onlookers would be responsible for continuing to look even after they knew they weren't supposed to.

Similarly, bloggers must be careful about what they write, lest they divulge traits about themselves that they should otherwise not be making known to the opposite gender, while at the same time, leading the readers into sin by hooking them on to reading on and learning more about the things they really don't need to know, and shouldn't know. Some devoted readers even end up forming an affectionate, emotional attachment with the author.

The fact that the above is in fact possible has proven itself time and time again, with bloggers receiving marriage proposals and other suggestive comments through various means such as e-mail, the comments box on their blogs, etc. It is highly unlikely that a stranger would send off a marriage proposal unless he/she was able to get to know the author well enough to feel comfortable in taking such a step.

It should be noted though that the above is regarding personal journal entries.

The second category, topic-specific journals, isn't much of an issue. Since the journal is centered on a specific subject or theme, there usually isn't room for personal details. This is similar to writing a column on a topic of choice for a magazine or a newspaper. Even if the journal contains commentary by the author, it will still be centered on the topic, so there isn't much of an issue here, provided the subject or theme itself is not an immodest and shameful one.

The third category can pass, as long as some conditions are met. Some people like to discuss issues or make certain points through giving examples of events or situations they face in their personal life. This is fine, as long as it doesn't reach the point described earlier in the discussion about the first category of blogs (e.g. personal journals).

Proponents of personal journals may argue that there are many benefits in having such a blog. For instance, the blogs help bloggers relieve stress by writing about their problems; they are chronicles for future reading; they inform, entertain, and educate others; they help build bonds of friendship; they allow an exchange of ideas; they give insight and help the bloggers improve their writing skills; and perhaps even allow the readers to "see how I apply Islam in my life".

While some of the benefits of personal blogs cannot be denied, it becomes a matter of harms outweighing the benefits. Something that can lead to immodesty should be avoided, especially if it doesn't offer any concrete benefits. Moreover, many of the benefits mentioned can be achieved without having a public personal journal. The entire problem lies in the public part. If the personal journal is limited to same-gender viewing only, there is no problem whatsoever.

Communication and Interaction

As long as the readers of the personal journal can't communicate with the author, it is a one-way communication. However, the negative aspects of personal journals are multiplied when a mechanism is made available for readers to leave comments for and interact with the author and with others, without any restrictions. As witnessed on some blogs, the ability to leave comments on the blog (either in the form of a 'comments' link after each post or a 'shout' box) can lead to unhindered communication between members of the opposite gender.

With the Islamic principles of modesty as a backdrop, it must be made clear that cross-gender interaction is permissible when needed, for as much as it is needed. Anything beyond that is impermissible.

When a 'comments' page and a 'shout' box are made available on a personal journal blog, it becomes almost impossible for at least some members of the opposite gender to not interact with the author and perhaps even other readers about matters pertaining to the author's personal life. Such needless discussions and 'light talk' between members of the opposite gender cannot be deemed as being permissible in Islam.

It is somewhat similar to, though not as extreme as, standing at a street corner and chit-chatting, cracking jokes, and conducting superfluous discussions with the other gender about their personal life and other unimportant matters that neither educate nor help in anything whatsoever – total idle talk.

Such discussions often very clearly lead to immodest behaviour. Some may see the fact that these discussions are held in public as a measure of security. In fact, the opposite is true. The fact that such discussions are held in full view of strangers is even more shameful.

The same rules would apply to such discussions as described by Shaykh Abdurrahman ibn Yusuf Mangera at http://www.sunnipath.com/resources/...qa00001336.aspx .

If the above elements are not found in 'comments' pages and 'shout' boxes on topic-specific and personal/topic-specific blogs, then they may be used, as long as they are not used as a conduit for unnecessary and immodest discussions between members of the opposite gender, and the discussions are kept on subject.

Anonymous Blogging

Some bloggers resort to blogging anonymously, since it seems like hiding one's identity can be a remedy for many of the potential problems that personal journals may lead to.

Unfortunately, this notion is incorrect.

The Islamic principles of modesty and cross-gender interaction apply to all Muslims, whether they let others know who they are or not.

Nobody would condone committing shameless and immodest acts in the midst of a group of strangers, simply because nobody recognizes him/her. Similarly, holding indecent discussions is impermissible, regardless of whether or not one divulges his/her gender and identity.

Therefore, rules of modesty and cross-gender interaction apply to all Muslims, regardless of how much others know about them. Holding a needless conversation with a member of the opposite gender doesn't become OK simply because the other party doesn't know if he/she is communicating with a male/female.

The onus is one each Muslim to follow the rules and guidelines prescribed by Allah and His Messenger (SAW). It isn't based on how much others know or don't know about the person.

In addition, hiding one's gender is extremely difficult in a personal journal. Sooner or later, something will be said that will enable the readers to discover the gender of the author.

In conclusion, before embarking on a blogging journey, all Muslims are humbly requested to take the above points into consideration. Just think: is a personal journal blog truly needed? Do you really want to share your personal details with the world? Is it really worth it? Do you really want strangers (guys and girls) reading about your life? Do you really want to step into an area you probably shouldn't be getting into, Islamically? Do you want your life to be indexed by Google?

As an alternative, one can have a private blog on one's own computer. As well, a gender-specific Yahoo! group can be created for members of the same gender to post their entries. Some blogging sites allow for password-protected entries, through which one can restrict and limit who can read the entries. Soon, some Islamic sites may begin brother- and sister-only blogging services, Insha-Allah.

This humble servant blogged for almost 9 months, writing over 170 000 words. In the end, though he had never thought it possible, he pulled his personal journal blog off the Internet.

It was just not worth it.

Allah knows best.
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Written by (Maulana) Sikander Ziad Hashmi

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